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Happiness is a process. A fucked up, tangled, mixed up process. There isn’t a straight line to it either. And when you have it, it’s as...

Today’s blog post is featured on Frolic Media. It is a piece I struggled to find the courage to write, as well as publish. It’s very...

Weston doesn’t believe in voodoo but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t believe in him. His life and family were steeped in the stuff and it...

The only way to learn how to write is to write a lot. I can’t remember which writer I got that little piece of advice from but it has...

Writing is hard. Writers do it because we love it. This isn’t a job you can do without loving it, just because of the sacrifice and the...

I try to never comment on the drama that goes on in the genre. It’s not that I don’t have opinions. I have lots of opinions and I’m an...

I can’t tie my shoes. No fucking shit, I am being 100% serious right now. I am partially dyslexic. I don’t talk about it. I don’t bring...

It’s dark for like the sixth week in a row, and I have no motivation to do anything. I didn’t even blog the last two weeks because I’ve...

Life changes us. Our experiences change us. Maybe it’s just because of the way I was raised, but I learn things about myself all the...

I want better for myself. I think we all do. I want to hold myself to a higher standard. I have been torn for weeks finishing up this YA...

Maybe we have the idea of mental health all wrong. I’ve been thinking a lot about mental health recently. I read a powerful twitter...

This is a hard one for me to write and I’m wavering before hitting publish even this morning. As I wrote last month, December is a hard...

The world isn’t great right now. There is tension and stress woven everywhere we look. There are days it feels like it’s a rubber band...

Holidays are hard. Anyone who doesn’t agree with me might not have lived or loved as hard. Or maybe I was just dealt a different hand...

I like to grand plan. I like to do it a lot more while I’m out in the majestic landscapes with little to no cell service. I like to think...

During this time of year I start to see a lot of posts about ‘accepting family’ and ‘reaching across the table and hugging someone who...

I hate being misgendered. I’m not sure if all trans people feel this way, but for me it’s like being completely dismissed and people...

Friendship is fucking weird. First off, it’s like saying I choose you to another random human. And it’s not about fucking or procreation...

It’s no secret I suffer from social anxiety. I’ve written about it before. I wrote about how it affected my GRL experience just two weeks...

I’ve sat back and watched my rights dismantled for the last two years with not a thing I could do about it. I live in Texas, where being...